This means that such a task is best achieved in the first meeting as it sets out the foundation for future relations between the two parties. The first few minutes are usually used to make a bond based on assumptions and beliefs (Dunbar). Dunbar further asserts that when two parties are in rapport, communication flows more smoothly, people are likely to have a shred understanding and they mostly on the “same wavelength” (74) In the film, Coach Carter, the rapport building session between the coach, Carter and the coachees (students) is very different from what is recommended by experts in the field.
Respect, empathy and fairness Respect, empathy and fairness are necessary principles that should be displayed and communicated both verbally and non-verbally. Bosede (2010) writes that when these aspects are observed, they allow a working environment through which coach and coachees can interact. In the film, the first meeting between the Carter and the students takes place in the gym in the presence of the retiring coach, Ray White. Carter is presented in the film as an outsider by all means who appears to have no emotions.
Although he is a former student at the school, Carter is set as a pure contrast in terms of demeanour, style of speaking, posture and dress code, which reflects the persona of a mean person. Carter as the new coach is contrasted against the former coach very sharply. White is depicted as someone who has built rapport with the students and is relaxed in their presence and so are the students while Carter as a strict person through his upright posture with an expressionless stare with eyes fixed on a spot in the distance.
He appears tough, resilient and immovable. Such a stance does not provide the students with the best image to build rapport with their new coach. The image of the new coach represents fear as can be seen with the blank stares that the students have on their faces. After White leaves, Carter addresses the students. The shot is taken from below making the students appear powerful and support the confrontational mood in the gym. The students appear bigger and eager to resist the imposed figure of the new coach.
The camera shot makes the students appear due to the light from the window which light touches on the students giving them larger silhouetted images of themselves. Power relationships The coach uses autocratic approach in handling the students. This is indicated in the way he communicates with the students. He is keen to dictate terms to the students and how they will elate. For instance, when conflict arises during an altercation with one student, he ends up bundling the student out of the gym.
The fact that he chooses to go physical with one of his coaches amounts to abuse of power. Spinelli (1998) indicates that some therapists, life coaches can seek to reassure themselves that they are right by using force. He notes in some instances, might think “I as a therapist know what I’m talking about, in spite of what you may think or in spite of your own responses to this, and you must listen to me because I am right because I have this whole body of theory behind me to back me up” (Spinelli, p. 181). In the film however, coach carter does not have any life coaching theory, he uses his experience to support his claims on the expected level of discipline from the students and work input.
It can be argued therefore, that, had Coach Carter had a better understanding on the theory behind life coaching and psychotherapy, he would have approached the problem in a more modest way. However, it is possible that the attitude of the students, especially Timo Cruz emanated from his social cultural and ethnic background. Sociocultural background Sociocultural background influences a coachee’s uptake of psychotherapeutic assistance. Kim (2011) indicates from the social cultural theory, individuals gain meaning of life and evens based on knowledge obtained from their culture and social backgrounds such as family and upbringing.
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