In this paper, the author tells that the turning point in his life was when he was enrolled in the elementary school. Elementary school was an impressionable time in the author's life and he believes everyone who passed through the elementary school shares the same sentiment. In school, it was a very new environment for fellow children and loving teachers, life had just begun for the author. The researcher had to coexist with children from different backgrounds and the teachers as well. One of the greatest life lessons the author learned at the elementary school was how to respect others. At the elementary school, the author learned that we dwell in a mixed society where there exists social hierarchy and that they are different yet all important. As compared to home where most of the time the author used to be alone, in school they had black children, white children, Asians, and Latinos. As the author progressed, he came to learn that people were varied even in character, there were some who were talkative, some quite, some playful other not and some outstanding in various activities held at a school. For instance, those who were good in games were made captains in the various sports activities among others. Outstanding children were awarded or made school kings and queens and even in college and life outside, the author finds that there is a social hierarchy. There are college leaders, beauty kings, and queens and even at a workplace, you will always find there is a boss in every department.
Decision-making and independence are some important aspects of the lives of human being. Knowing what do under different circumstances is important for an individual to be successful in life. The process of decision making at times may be challenging depending on the matter at hand, but a good decision maker always carry the day. As the author progressed, there was the need to cope with pressure from fellow children and even teachers in some instances. At times, it used to be survival for the tough, if, by any chance you showed a sign of weakness, other students would take advantage and bully you making life miserable at school. This was a time to show the ability to stand strong and resist bullying. The fact that school was mixed society, there were children with weird characters or bad habits that could easily influence others. Decision-making skills were sharpened in elementary school where you had to stand for the right thing despite the peer pressure. The researcher finds independence and decision making lessons he got back in those years still useful and I believe they are virtues that will continue to have a positive impact on my life. A good decision maker is one who pays attention to others and it is a fact that there are people who have been dismissed by their employers for failure to follow instructions.