Is marriage that complex? Is it really that hard to keep a relationship going? Or are the wrong people taking the plunge? One of the reasons the divorce rate is so high now is the changing expectations of the roles we play in marriage…
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It is no longer sufficient for a man simply to be a terrific provider and for a woman to be an outstanding homemaker. People expect more. Men and women want intimacy, romance, affection, understanding, commonality of interests, conversation, common values, and exciting sex, to mention a few of the more common requirements. They want an equal partnership with one another, where both parties participate equally in all of the decisions pertaining to the home and to child-rearing, regardless of who is earning more money. The family changed from "Dad wears the pants in the family" to Mom and Dad are partners in the business of family. The expectations men and women have of one another, and subsequently of marriage, have changed. Couples expect more of one another and from their marriage. With increased information, leisure time, mobility, and affluence people have more time to learn about themselves and to experience various life styles.
They have more contact with how other people live. They also have increased opportunity to learn about themselves. In less affluent times, when roles were clearly defined along gender lines, a person's self-concept remained static. Today, however, after being continuously bombarded with information and the possibility of change, the concept of self has become more dynamic. When two people are married and over a period of years at least one person, if not both, undergoes a significant change in self-concept, the marriage will also change. The selves that married are no longer the same. If interests, goals, values change along with a changing self, you have a different dynamic set up between the two people. In some cases this dynamic is such that the marriage no longer seems viable. When we combine this change with the awareness that we will be living longer, it appears more probable that people will seek a second or third partner with whom they feel more compatible.
Mortality is another reason divorce is such a common thing. Many people recognize in these times that the concept of marriage "until death do us part" is more a figurative use of the phrase than a literal use. People go into a marriage thinking if it doesn't work out... if it gets too hard... if my feelings change... I'll just leave. I'll just get a divorce. Unlike decades
There are as many theories on this issue as there are people offering them. The usual explanations are communication, compromise, and commitment, and it's hard to disagree with them.Indeed, if both spouses were consistently able to communicate with each other, able and willing to compromise with each other, and 100% committed to their marriage, it's hard to see how it could fail.As we can see from the forgoing analysis, many factors contribute to the decision to divorce.Change is the only constant in life. Hence, marriage is constantly evolving and imperfect. Sometimes two people are able to grow, change, and evolve in similar directions, sometimes not. Sometimes our expectations remain constant, more often they change. Sometimes our expectations are the same as our partners, and sometimes not. The longer we live, the more possibility for change to be in different directions, thus increasing the chances of divorce because of the desire to pursue the different
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It is a sad reality that divorce rate is heightening all over the globe, though this rate is alarmingly increasing especially in the western world where ferocious competitiveness creates phenomenal problems for both men and women. With the female workforce increasing in number at almost all the workplaces, more and more men are left jobless and lay-offs put men in a critical state of vulnerability, which proves to be truly lethal for the stable functioning of their marriages.
Factors that affect the divorce rate
Divorce rate is the number of divorces per 1000. Divorce rate is increased day by day. There are many factors that affect the divorce arte. These factors are education, race, prestige, religious activities etc. As per Data of the US census Bureau in 2010 the highest “First divorce rate” is 17.5 per 1000 women.
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