Name Instructor Class 24 April 2013 Loving Through Understanding and Finding Peace in Peace, Love & Misunderstanding Because of people’s differences, they can find it hard to understand and accept one another, more so, to love each another unconditionally…
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Diane brings her children, Zoe (Elizabeth Olsen) and Jake (Nat Wolff) with her. Diane surprises her mother, whom she has alienated for twenty years. What is supposed to be a weekend, where Diane only wanted space from her husband and their divorce, became a full week of awakening for all characters. Diane resolves her conflicts her with her children, her mother, and with herself, by understanding that they are all human beings, and by accepting that they all have weaknesses, she can stop judging them and herself and begin loving with peace. Diane is detached from her children, which creates a barrier between them, because she misunderstands their maturity and needs. When she brings them to her mother’s house, her children are asking about the reasons. Jake even jokes that their grandmother is dead, since they have not seen her since birth and suddenly they have to meet her. Diane finally drops the bad news that she and Mark are having a divorce. Zoe wants to talk about it, but Diane does not say anything anymore. When Zoe asks, “Are we going to talk about this,” Diane does not answer and prepares to go in the house. With her back on Zoe, the scene indicates detachment from her children’s concerns. Instead of being open to her children, Diane creates a wall between them without even being aware of it. As a result, Zoe and Jake hardly understand what their mother is going through, because they do not even know who she is. The conflict between Diane and her kids arises from her treatment of them as children, instead of as adolescents who are already mature enough to know the truth and to know how to cope with their family issues. The irony is that she is doing to her kids, what her mother did to her- to separate herself from her children because of the feeling that they cannot understand their parent’s concerns and needs. Aside from conflict with her children, Diane has a longstanding conflict with her mother because she does not want to understand her for who she is and not what Diane wants her to be. In her mind, her mother is a poor parent because she smokes pot and sells it, which is illegal. At the same time, Diane remembers the days that her mother was not able to pick her up from school on time because she is wasted or with her lovers. She cannot let go of her mother’s “irresponsibility, embarrassment and total refusal to grow up” (Peace, Love & Misunderstanding). Her mother, on the other hand, continues with her carefree hippie life. She wants to make amends with her daughter for the sake of her relationship and for the sake of being with her grandchildren, but as Jude describes Diane, the latter cannot stop her fighting as she “[boxes] with shadows” (Peace, Love & Misunderstanding). Diane does not realize yet that all she does in her life is to fight, even when people are not fighting with her. All she knows is that she and her mother are in conflict because they have different values and priorities in life. Diane has yet to open her mind to the real reason behind their conflict- her inability to fully accept her mother, especially her human faults and limitations and their differences as human beings. Apart from conflict with her family, the greatest conflict Diane has is with her own self because she has not accepted the fullness of her humanity. She misunderstands people because she misunderstands her identity most of all. Because of her mother’s free spirit, whom Diane learned to loathe, she decided to be more responsible and aggressive. She
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