Attachment theory is the emotional, evolutionary and ethological theory relating to the relationship between parents and children. This theory proposes that for the child to develop normally, he/she need a secure relationship with the mother. Bowlby’s notion of inner working models helps us explain the long-term consequences of early attachment experiences. Internal working models are the basis for organization and understanding of emotional experiences, helping to make sense of new experiences and shaping subjective reality (Bowlby 1988:5).
Children can either have secure or insecure attachment; however, the majority of them have secure attachment patterns. There are three categories of insecure attachment patterns, the avoidant, ambivalent and disorganized attachment. Parents who have discouraged overt symptoms of either affection or distress and who do not show any sympathy, have their children suffer from avoidant attachment. Such children have a tendency to avoid care giver figures, suppress their emotions and conducts related to threats.
They also tend to be more hostile and insulting to their parents. At the extreme, such children can develop schizoid personality (Williams and Kelly 2005). Children with anxiously attachment pattern are likely to display reversed role at the age of six years old. Anxiously attached children are likely to have unconfident internal working models and do not have the ability to form positive relationship and therefore do not have the confidence to deal with new challenges or interact with their teachers.
They are therefore not able to communicate well with their peers, cannot persist longer with problems, are not resilient, are not joyful, are disliked by their peers, and are stubborn and not creative (Collins and Repinski 1994)). Such children have negative expectations of others and show feelings of low self-respect, loneliness and angry rejection. All these personality problems tend to place them at a high risk of the developing of learning difficulties. Teachers describe these children as being rebellious, aggressive, antisocial, impulsive, introvert, easily depressed, attention seeking and emotionally insulated (Sroufe and Waters 1977).
Children with Ambivalent attachment have hysterical personality in which they flee from intimacy, become clingy and are easily weighed down by their own sentiments. They also do not have confidence and boldness essential to connect with the preschool environment successfully. In a study done by Sroufe in 1989, they were observed to have excessive attention seeking, anxious and impulsive and they were inert and weak. Owing to the high levels of stress such children suffer from, they experience concentration difficulties (Greenberg et al 1982).
There is sufficient evidence that there is a relationship between attachment and the maltreatment of children. Children with disorganized attachment patterns are mostly abused and neglected by their parents (Sroufe and Waters 1977). Children who come from unsupportive family environment are not resilient and suffer from low self esteem, are high tempered and cannot depend on themselves. Low self esteem lead to poor competence and problem solving abilities which translate to late development.
There is a link between internal working models and the encouragement of social competence in adolescence (Bowlby 1988:5. Weakly attached children are more likely to have negative perceptions of themselves and that of others. There is a link between strong attachment and social relationships with peers and teachers in school as children with poor attachment networks have poor social skills and hence, are not able to from strong social relationships (Allen et al 2003). There is also a strong relationship between attachment and brain development as the brain of the child is not usually full developed at birth and tend to develop fully during the first three years of her/his life (Bowlby 1988).
During these three years, the different sections of the central nervous system are systematically arranging themselves at different times and any disturbances of the experience-dependence neurochemical indicators can lead to deformities in neurodevelopment (Bowlby 1988).
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