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It is a universal phenomenon, and makes it easy for us to cope with our environment. However, problems arise when someone makes a false impression or image about an individual and acts accordingly, many times bringing harm to that person or adversely affecting their relationship. Therefore, I am not surprised that my friends have formed perceptions about me. Some of these perceptions are correct, some are falsely formed. Learning about this gives me an opportunity to correct their impressions and thoughts about me, and to set the record straight.
It will also teach me to communicate effectively so that no such future problems or misconceptions arise. Some of the answers that my friends gave surprised me, not because all of them were wrong, but because I had no idea that they considered me in that particular manner. Some of the responses were wrong, which led to false perceptions, and I would like to work at correcting them so that they can know my true self and personality. It is important because healthy relationships must always be based on truth and honesty.
Some of the most surprising perceptions that people have of me are that I am complacent and a procrastinator. This is interesting to know since I was of the opinion that people thought otherwise. The incidences that they have quoted do make it seem like it is true, however, those perceptions were formed falsely, and I would like to change people’s thoughts about this. It is true that at times I complain about things not going in the right direction or events not occurring the way they should or the way I had planned, but at the end of the day I do believe in making an effort to change things in my favor rather than simply sitting idle and complaining about them.
Maybe they did not observe the times when I was actually working, and only focused on the times when I was simply being idle. As for being a procrastinator, it is true that at times I get tired of work and the same mundane routine, and tend to take prolonged breaks or spend time surfing the net or the television, but that is not my permanent habit. I believe everyone goes through phases in which they do not want to work and follow the same timetable, and instead just want to spend their time doing practically nothing.
To make this a perception about someone and to label them as a procrastinator, however, is the surprising, and rather disappointing act. I would not have expected that from my close friends, at least. On the other hand, what pleasantly surprised me after reading their responses was that they considered me to be independent and successful. This was unexpected for me as they had never given me even a hint before that they thought of me this way. It is true that I like to handle my problems myself and work on them without involving a lot of people, and I am relatively free to make my own decisions, but I would have thought that all my friends were this way and that there was nothing special about this.
It seems now that I was wrong, and that this is a poignant factor in our social circle. Moreover, I have been lucky enough to get good grades and be at the top in the extra-curricular activities as well; maybe that is the reason my friends think of me as successful. In fact, their responses indicated as much. Personally, I believe there is still a long way for me to go, and a lot to achieve before I can consider myself to be truly successful. Nevertheless, these are some motivating perceptions
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