My Family Analysis - Movie Review Example

Even before Chucho was born, his parents considered him a special child. However, when he grew up, he became an intermediate gangster. Besides engaging in street fights, he was also involved in illegal activities. One day Jose got really upset because he found out from the police that his own son had been earning money by selling drugs. When Chucho came home, his father could not contain the anger and kicked him out of the house. Later, like anybody else, after pondering on what he did, he felt ashamed of his rash actions.

Jose wanted to ask forgiveness and forgive his son, but was too proud to do it. He suffered a lot from the guilt and wanted to have his son back, but was not able to share his feelings, because Chucho was found and killed by the police. Chucho, at the time he left father’s home, was very upset and did not want to see his father any more. The pride kept the son and father separated. But Chucho honestly did not hold a grudge against his father. When Chucho was hiding after he accidentally killed another man, he was talking with his younger brother Jimmy and he wanted to tell his father something.

The movie did not specify what it was, but by the tone of Chucho’s voice, it may be interpreted that he wanted to tell his father that he loved him. A lack of forgiveness sets an invisible wall between people. They cannot reach out to each other. By holding on to a grudge, the anger can be turned into a new experience. It may wrap a heart up in the anger so tight that it will not be possible to realize what is going on in the world around. Life will start to lose its meaning and purpose. Most people are depressed during this period of time.

Forgiveness is a psychological decision to change and doing all you can to reach that goal. Once you forgive someone, you will start feeling compassionate and understanding. It is not something that can be expected from others.0 Forgiveness is a personal decision. Another example of forgiveness in the movie is Jose and Maria forgiving Toni. It was shocking news for them to find out she wanted to become a nun, but them her mother was very proud of her daughter for making such a decision. From then on her parents expected her to serve God.

But things did not turn out the way they expected and, in a way, Toni disappointed them. She married a priest. It was such an unusual thing in the day that Maria fainted. Her parents could have easily gotten upset with their daughter and sent her away, but Jose said “If that’s what God wants – then its fine with me”. Jose learned through his life, that anger and a lack of forgiveness may have a price that is too high. Sometime’s in life, we are the ones that need to ask for forgiveness.

Like little Carlitos needed to forgive his father Jimmy. Jimmy had been in prison and had not been around when the young boy needed him most. When his father came back, Jimmy tried to settle things between them and make them a family again. Carlitos would always brush Jimmy off by breaking expensive gifts from his father, not going for outings with him and even doing his best to avoid Jimmy if it was at all possible. If the father ever needed to talk to his son, Carlitos would only respond in cursing.

Jimmy almost lost hope in gaining his son’s love, but then he realized, he himself was held in the prison of anger for too long to forgive those who, he had thought, wronged him, to forgive Carlitos for his mother’