Sexual Empowerment: Detachment and Desire - Essay Example

The young girl sees his continuation of desire as a weakness, her ability to pull away from a sign of strength. Therefore, she views him with pity, her own strength giving her a feeling of superiority.

            She has discovered that the experience was not overwhelming, that she could maintain her own control during the event and that within this she has conquered her own thoughts about the possibility of having the imposition of desire. She says “she was pleased to discover that it was an unexceptional experience”, thus she finds that the experience did not affect her in such a way that she would become a victim of it (Perkins and Perkins 2539). As she turns away, her reminiscent comments suggest that she has had a profound moment, not through the sensuality of the kiss, but through the realization that she is immune to the intent of the kiss. Her power is in not giving in to her desire, her control through her detachment. Thus, she now knows how to remain in power and in control.