The community will become strong once there has been improved wellbeing of individuals which includes improved safety, self-reliance, individual and family productivity, and improved ability to withstand negative forces that affect individuals and communities once in a while such economic fluctuations and natural calamities. Aboriginal people value their community highly. According to Hugh Mackay (2017), all people are urged to participate in their local community and rethink the values of the `me` society.
Aboriginal people have very strong values of family unlike the non-aboriginal people such as the western countries. According to Daniel Dareus (2004), of the `as it is in heaven film` people are happy when they are together. Their families relations are extended not only to the nuclear family which is common among the non-aboriginal but also have an extended family system. This means that to them the children are not only owned by their biological parents but the whole community is responsible of their children’s behavior which further shows that members of a community have the right to discipline other peoples children.
According to the aboriginal people, when an individual misbehaves, shame is not only felt by his nuclear family but the whole community feels responsible while among non-aboriginal people, every family is left to face their own shame and irresponsibility. The aim of parenting for Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander people is to let the child know who they are in relationship to their family, their kin, their people, their environment and the living spirits of their ancestors and land. These relationships defines a child’s identity by defining how they are connected to everything; (The secretariat of National Aboriginal and Islander Child Care, 2010) Kinship systems are strongly and well defined among the aboriginals and everyone belongs to a certain extended family while among the western people kinship systems are not valued.
The kinship system of the aboriginals has roles that have been well defined and also responsibilities define how children are educated. Children are taught while still young of their responsibilities in the community. In a western country it is a crime to beat up or even better said disciplines a neighbor’s child as only the biological parents are allowed to. Aboriginals are very strict on conforming to changes without the elders first meeting up and discussing whether a certain change or revolution is legal or not depending on the values held important in their communities.
They do not agree to change that would otherwise differ with their community values. Western people on the other hand are always open to change that comes up every day. Aboriginals have set up moral obligations and rules that are very strictly followed by members of their community and even foreigners who set foot in their community have to respect what they believe in. the inherent strengths of culture for families has been identified for a protective factor for Aboriginal children( Lohoar, Butere and Kennedy 2014) Whenever non aboriginals set foot into the land of the aboriginals they have to pay their respects to the land owners who are the aboriginals.
Most times aboriginals are recognized and acknowledged during conferences and meetings and the aboriginals are in charge of welcoming foreigners in their country since they are the original owners. Non aboriginals like for the case of western countries visitors are welcome in their countries and they do not value the paying of respect to them by foreigners. In an aboriginal community, there are specific roles performed by men who cannot be performed by women and vice versa while in the western setting, it is rare to find such rules.
However, in a modernized aboriginal’s community, some activities which could not be performed by men and vice versa can now be performed by both parties. Respect is an important value among aboriginals and therefore while having engagements with aboriginals, respect has to be practiced.
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