Having understood the uniqueness in the needs of the child with autism, the family must be the first entity to accommodate the child. They must learn to understand the inherent characteristics of the child. One way of achieving this is learning the communication approach of the child living with autism. Instead of forcing the child to communicate using a specific methodology, the family ought to learn the easiest way of this child’s communication. This may include the use of sign language. It is the responsibility of the family to learn and understand the sign language so that the child living with autism will be easily understood (Clarissa, 2009, pp. 85). This is a perfect way of accepting and embracing a child living with autism.
This will make it not only easy to communicate, but also be more comfortable. This opens up the desire of the child with autism to express himself. Realizing that he is communicating with people in the environment is very uplifting to the psychological development of the child with this disorder. This will not only improve the child’s socializing ability, but also the academic performance (Seaman, 2003). The last thing that that must be done at family level to ensure acceptance and inclusiveness is the awareness of the real condition.
The parents have a very big task of ensuring the other children in the family understand the medical condition of their sibling. This will foster an overall understanding of the condition. This is because children may possess inaccurate information concerning this disorder (Lee, Odom & Loftin, 2007). The various sources that people seek for information autism are very unreliable. According to Sicile-Kira (2004), the internet and other reading resources may provide skewed knowledge about autism.
Therefore, the parents must ensure that the knowledge about the disorder is from appropriate sources. These sources can include medical practitioners in that field. The main reason for this enlightenment at family level is to ensure that other children may have full understanding of the condition. With that, it will be very easy for the other children to love and accept their brother. When they realize their sick brother behaves uniquely, they will not humiliate him. At the same time, when they see their sick brother messing up and just going unpunished, they will not be upset.
The main focus in doing all this is to create an atmosphere that will make the autistic child comfortable to interact. At the same time, it works well to prepare this child fully before he meets the larger world in school (Rossetti, 2012). Neighbours and the General Society Neighbours and the overall society cannot be ignored. Just like the autistic child requires acceptance from the family, he also requires the same from the society. This is another important stakeholder in the development of this child.
This is because if the environment is so hostile, the development of the autistic child may be hindered. Therefore, the child deserves the goodwill of the society in order to successfully win the fight against autism. All this is from the understanding of the manner in which the society can perceive disabilities. On many occasions, the children from the neighbourhood are likely to make fun of such a kid. This can be horrifying to the sick kid. Furthermore, exclusion can be the norm from by the children in the neighbourhoods.
This is based on poor understanding of the nature of the disorder. Some may have the feeling of the disorder being contagious. This is very sad as the autistic child may be forced to live in seclusion. The more this takes place, the more this child feels he is less than a human being. What such kids require is a show of love and care, without which will affect even their performance in class (Willis, 2006). The society must come to the knowledge that children born with autism require to lean on someone in one way throughout the life on earth.
Children with autism are special needs because there are things they cannot achieve on their own.
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