Gay Marriage in China - Research Paper Example

English 13 April Gay Marriage in China Introduction Naturally, sexual attraction usually occurs between members of opposite sexes. This means that boys are attracted to girls while men are attracted to women and vice versa. Although this has been the normal scenario, cases of people getting attracted to people of the same sex as them have been on the rise, especially since the beginning of the twenty-first century. Relationships between such individuals are known as homosexual relationships, while marriages between them are known as gay or same sex marriages. In recent years, many nations have legalized same sex marriages. In China, very small achievements surrounding the issue of gay marriages have been realized. According to Fedorak, “in 1997, the law that outlawed sodomy was repealed, and in 2001, homosexuality was no longer classified as a mental illness” (90). The have been numerous attempts to have the marriage laws that only recognize straight marriages amended, but they have all been unsuccessful. This paper is an argumentative research essay that proposes that gay marriages should not be legalized in china. This is after a thorough look, discussion and reflection of both sides of the argument. Arguments for the Legalization of Gay Marriages in China The existence of homosexuals in China is a reality: Same sex relationships have existed in China for a very long time. According to Newton, “long-term same-sex loving relationships were common during certain periods of early Chinese history, with at least 10 emperors between the period 206 BCE and 1 CE known to have been involved in such relationships” (5). This however does not mean that homosexuality was accepted; it was rather fairly tolerated. Drescher and Lingiardi point out that “it was only after 1949 that homosexual behavior was seriously punished in China and served as grounds for persecution during Chinese political upheavals between the 1950s and 1970s” (117). From this, it is clear that the Chinese people have always accepted homosexuality and its existence, but not its legalization. All Chinese citizens have equal rights: The only reason the law should deny people their rights is in instances where the rights are against the law. The Chinese criminal law has no specific statement that describes the status of homosexuals or whether it is illegal or not. Only the following statement exists in the nation’s laws: “all hooliganism should be subjected to arrest and sentence” (West and Green 63). In this case hooliganism means any disruption of social order. Since homosexuality is greatly condemned in the Chinese society and viewed as immoral, it is also considered hooliganism. However, just as straight couples are allowed to get married, so should gays. After all, they are all Chinese citizens and need to be treated equally. Chinese scholar Li Yinhe, in her rally for the legalization of same sex marriages urged that China can display its effort in protection of human rights to the rest of the world by legalizing same sex marriages (Yiu, gaystarnews.com). There will be control of the spread of HIV/AIDS: Lack of stable relationships exposes people to HIV/AIDS. This has been the situation in China since most gays struggle to behave as straight individuals, as they hide their real self in fear of rejection and rebuke from the society. After marriage to people of the opposite sex, homosexual desires still exist and most homosexuals find it very hard to control them. The result of this is unfaithfulness and individuals having more than one sex partner. According to Dutton, “naturally, there are many homosexuals who, after marriage, still frequent the old haunts and renew their homosexual acquaintances” (72). The method used by the Chinese government to reduce new HIV/AIDS infections has been distributing condoms to public places and hotels. Proponents of the legalization of gay marriages however argue that this not been effective enough as the rate of new infections continues to rise. Li’s argument is that legalization of same sex marriages is the more effective solution since homosexuals will be able to form stable relationships (Yiu, gaystarnews.com). The common scenario of marriages ending in tragedies will be prevented: Majority of gays and lesbians go ahead and marry people of their opposite sex, as they fear facing the consequences of having their real statuses known. Dutton asserts that “there are some very famous figures within the homosexual community but even they do not ‘come out’ but try, instead, to hide their sexual preference from relatives , family and society” (71-72). Research also shows that the number of Chinese women married to gay men is about 16 million (Yiu, gaystarnews.com). The traditional values of Confucianism on which the Chinese moral order is built upon uphold the obligation of every healthy adult to marry and have children. Due to this pressure, most gays opt to get married. However, since they have different desires, these unions do not last long and divorce and separation become the only options. For the innocent spouses, their lives get ruined as they carry the divorcee tag (Jiang, cnn.com) .The proponents of the recognition of same sex marriage argue that these kinds of tragedies can be prevented. This is because people will be free to follow their desires without worry about the society’s reaction. It will be easier to control population: Among the greatest problems that have been facing China is population control. Rapid population growth began decades ago and efforts by the government to control the population have only been fairly effective. The main reason behind this has been low mortality rates, while fertility rates have remained high. Family planning programs have been established and restrictions placed regarding the number of children that couple are allowed to have. Legalization of gay marriages has been proposed as a more effective solution to this problem. Procreation among same sex couples is only possible artificially and this makes marriages between such couples more effective in population control. With heterosexual or straight couples, accidental conceptions are sometimes very hard to control. Accidental conceptions are however non-existent among gay couples. Arguments against the Legalization of Gay Marriages in China Legalization of gay marriage will lead to legalization of other infamous acts: There are certainly many reasons cited in support of gay marriages and many supporters in China. However, this could be the starting point towards rallies campaigning for the support and legalization of other infamous acts such as marriages between men and beasts, marriages between siblings and other acts that could be so unnatural (“Should China Legalize,” chinafrica.cn). This is because just as supporters of gay marriages argue their facts out, so will supporters of such infamous acts argue their way into having them legalized in future. It is no doubt that marriage is a personal decision that each individual ought to make without influence, but when things go beyond what is moral and ethical, restrictions are necessary. Supporters of gay marriages argue that gay unions are consensual relationships, but the question is whether all consensual relationships should be accepted, certainly not. Brothers and sisters, fathers and daughters and mothers and sons could in future agree to get married. This makes it impossible for all consensual relationships to be treated and accepted as marriage since other factors could be at stake. Another example is having groups of people get married since they agree to. All this would not be right. There will be serious damages to the society: Legalization of gay marriages in China would call for a change in the definition of marriage in the society, as well as a change in the society’s perception of marriage (“Should China Legalize,” chinafrica.cn). All human societies are founded on marriage and marriages are recognized as unions between heterosexual couples or men and women. Among the purposes of marriage is procreation, which is not naturally possible among homosexual couples. Societies uphold the norm of having children brought up by heterosexual parents, whom they know as mother and father. Legalization of same sex marriages would mean a change of all these concepts meaning that there would be serious damage to the entire society. When it comes to the argument that marriage is a matter that is private to the concerned parties, then there would be no need for its protection by public powers. Since the ancient times, marriages have always had the protection of public powers meaning that marriage is not a private matter (“Should China Legalize,” chinafrica.cn). The fact that it is not a private matter and has never been a private matter is enough proof of how much change and destruction gay marriages would bring to the society. Making gay marriages legal will lead to more people in heterosexual relations leaving them to pursue homosexuality. There are individuals who still question their sexual orientation and while some may get confused, they eventually choose to the follow the path of morality. If gay marriages are made legal, confused individuals will hardly choose to follow the path of morality since homosexuality will at the time be regarded moral. Homosexuals are not denied any rights or freedoms: Among the reasons cited for legalization of gay marriages in China is the claim that homosexuals are discriminated and denied freedom to do things they would wish to do. First of all, homosexuality is not illegal in China since it was removed from the list of psychiatric disorders and decriminalized in 2001 and 1997 respectively. The fact is that although the two changes took place, the government has always been silent about the issue. This has consequently prevented any developments in removing any form of bias towards lesbians, gays, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) individuals in the country. Additionally, the legal status of LGBT’s remains unclear. When homosexuals in China decide to come out and invite their friends and relatives to celebrate their unions with them, no law stops them. In fact, they are free to conduct their personal matters such as swearing to be faithful to each other, living together and loving each other. All these are not restricted at a personal level. However, when it comes to legal issues, ethics and laws must be applied and hence legalizing gay marriages calls for attention to much more. The right to get married is availed to all people through the Universal Declaration of Human Rights, which recognizes marriages between mature males and females. Most gays and lesbians are perfectly normal males and females who opt to give up their rights to get married in pursuit of their sexual orientations. Therefore, the rights and freedoms of these people are guaranteed, but it can be said that they choose to give up these rights and freedoms. Conclusion It is fact that homosexuals do exist in the Chinese society, but legalization of unions between such people is another thing. Homosexuals in ancient Chinese societies did no campaign for legalization of their unions and that way, the society did not suffer much harm. Today however, individuals choose to ignore the harms that would come with their behaviors, as they pursue selfish desires. What is good for the majority has always been the best foundation of societies since this is usually what is right, ethical and moral. Homosexuals in China are free to pursue their desires, but should only do so at a personal level. Regarding the prevention of new HIV/AIDS infections and population control, there are effective means of doing this rather than legalizing gay marriages. It is a fact that most gay individuals have more than one gay partner and deciding not to use any protection is a personal choice. This is clear evidence that legalizing gay marriages will not reduce the rate of new HIV/AIDS infections since individuals with the tendencies of having many sexual partners will still have the same tendencies. Condoms have been distributed in public places and hotels by the Chinese government, but only those who care about their health care to use them. So far, China has been able to control the rate of population growth so urging for the legalization of gay marriages as a good population control measure is just an excuse. From this discussion, the arguments against that legalization of gay marriages win since they look at the long term effects that such a decision would have even in years to come. Prevention has always been better than cure and preventing tragedies that would come with legalization of gay marriages in China is way better than trying to counter the issue when it gets out of hand in future. Works Cited Drescher, Jack and Vittorio Lingiardi. 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