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Prove Me Wrong My personality and character has always stood for the right and not the wrong. I had this belief that I was the most suitable person to help my friends and family out whenever they had an issue(s) that I could address. I cannot affirm that this has changed. However, it has come to my concern that looks can be deceiving, and what I think is right is not necessarily so. I trust easy, I am kind, I care, and I love my family and friends. Whilst these personal traits might not change over my life time, handling them with ultimate care is vital.
They make me easy to persuade, subsequently vulnerable to exploitation. It is in the family setting that I learnt to stand by my friends and family. Whenever an issue occurred, social or financial, I would do my best to save the situation. For this reason, everybody seemed to like me. My family and friends enjoyed my company and came to me for help any time they felt like. I would give my advice or offer whatever I have if the issue was financial. However, I expected that anything borrowed from me should be returned, especially where monetary values were attached.
Months and years passed before things started changing. After some time, I realized that my generosity, kindness, care, and love were being taken for granted. They started being used as avenues to exploit me. My friends and family had known me too well, allowing them to take advantage of my weak point. I call it weak point because it is hard for me to see anybody undergo some hard times when I can offer my help. For this reason, convincing or persuading me did not take much energy. After months and years passed, I realized that what was borrowed from me was never to return.
At the time, I never made any follow-ups since I expected that sooner or later the agreement will be met. It started with my brother Jason and my sister Sally. Every now and then they would ask if I had any money that I could offer them and expect to be repaid in a short while. As usual, the easy to persuade character played its role. This extended to my friends Duncan, Tom, and Daniel. Today one asks for financial help, tomorrow the other asks if he/she can spend some few days at my house. The trend continued for several months until I could not take it anymore.
I had this feeling that my brother, sister, and friends only needed me because I could help. They found it easy to exploit me in the best way they could because I was easy to persuade. I trusted and fell into their traps quite easily due to my generosity. Personally, I was not going to change and be rude or something. However, I saw it necessary to redesign and restructure my relations and interactions with my family and friends. Remember, this lot was only part of a large family and friend system.
I still had my loyal ones, but I had to learn how to deal with the exploitative one. Whilst, my generosity, love, kindness, and care remained intact, I decided not to trust easy. From there on, it would take me more than a mere statement to persuade me. If you had a case to argue or seek help for, you had to prove that you really deserved my attention. Again, I applied this to the category of persons I felt that were exploitative to me. If anything, my loyal ones hardly came to me for help. I took that the exploitative lot had mastered the art of exploitative because I could easily identify them once I learnt my lesson.
Today, I am hard to persuade. If you do not believe me, prove me wrong. I have maintained my beliefs and principles, and I still stand for the right. However, I am not perfect for that matter. I am just a normal being striving to live a life that I wish for the world. Be generous, kind, caring, and loving, but beware that there are persons who see opportunities and material gains from these traits. I help whenever I can, but I am cautious of being exploited. As a result, I have become this hard-to-persuade person but my principles still direct my perspective of the right and the wrong.
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