Have you congratulated your friends on the accounts of International Best Friend’s Day? Well, you still have an opportunity to do so! Despite this holiday dates 8th of June, there is a whole week and entire life to bring our closest pals joy and happiness. Who said that parents and our girlfriends/boyfriends (wives/husbands) are the only people in our life who really cares about our well-being? If you simply don’t have a best friends yet, there is no good reason to lose hope: so many people, so many tastes.
Pick the one according to your interests or life goals, but make sure he or she has passed a probation period successfully. We recommend setting the frames of three to six months. As the world operates much faster today, you may lose a plenty of time searching for the true love or loyal long-lasting friendship. By knowing some psychology aspects, it is easy to determine whether a particular person suits you.
Do you believe in friendship among people of a different gender? Same-sex friendship may easily crack because of the same interests. For instance, falling in love with the same girl or guy. But have you ever thought about a friendship between man and woman who do not express any passionate feelings to each other?
Remember My Best Friend’s Wedding starring Julia Roberts and Cameron Diaz? Well, that is not the best example of such an unselfish friendship. But does it always end up this way? “The fact is that some straight men and women are just friends”, as shared by well-known psychologist and contributing writer of several issues Mark Amundsen.
Most of the people, however, trust this sort of relations less that in the same-sex friendship or marriage of people whose gap in age or social class is too much obvious. We recalled the studies of Doctor Janice D. Bennett, who addressed this issue on her official site several times.
She claims physical attraction is not the only one. No matter what orientation two same-sex people have, they should be attracted to each other to spend time together.
And there is nothing wrong when two guys or two girls empathize each other. So what is wrong with the same relations among people of the opposite sex? A young girl loves her Pokemon toys while the neighboring guy likes them too. It makes them play together. Does it necessarily mean a man-woman attraction? Not at all. He might love her as a small sister and protect during the entire life, but he will never want to have sex with her. And it happens so. The doctor stresses common interests as the main reasons to make friends.
The only difference is the way representatives of each gender perceive friendship and love. While boys focus on shared activities, women focus more on feelings and emotions. Anyway, it is important to keep in mind there are a lot of women with a masculine nature, while more and more men appear to possess feminine characteristics mostly due to the popularity of particular rock and heavy metal movements. A lot of men prefer having women as a friend as they feel free to share intimate details. In addition, they don’t compete with women in friendships. Finally, men can be physically close with female friends in terms of kissing their chicks or hugging in ways that they might not feel comfortable doing with men. Right, they can perceive women as little sisters and compare having intimate relations with them to some kind of incest.
The problem of such kind of relations is only the jealousy of our boyfriends/girlfriends. I believe that if your partner really loves you, he should accept your friends as own fellows. Otherwise, he or she simply does not respect your rights and private life. Or, perhaps, you are throwing up something? J
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